To see (or use) spoons in a dream, denotes favorable signs of advancement. Domestic affairs will afford contentment. To think a spoon is lost, denotes that you will be suspicious of wrong doing. To steal one, is a sign that you will deserve censure for your contemptible meanness in your home. To dream of broken or soiled spoons, signifies loss and trouble.
An extract from “The illustrated Dream Dictionary” by Russell Grant purports that dreaming of a wooden spoon is an indication of a forthcoming secret liaison with a member of the opposite sex.
Dreaming of eating food with a tablespoon indicates a need for showing adaptability in your life, whilst eating with a teaspoon indicates you may be showing signs of being over-analytical or over-critical.
Source: 10 000 Dream Interpretations, by Gustavus Hindman Miller, The Illustrated Dream Dictionary, by Russell Grant